In the corner of our space is a large braided Fichus, a fig tree, we fondly call the Tree of Life. It has witnessed many seasons since our opening in 1996 as the Tree of Life Yoga Studio. As a yoga studio, we grew to serve many students and became the home and training ground for many aspiring teachers who would go on to share their gifts. In addition, in 2001, The Gifts of Grace foundation was founded to offer volunteerism to our community. Through the foundation, we offered many services including the making of over 300 quilts delivered to the Nashua District Office of the Division of Children, Youth and Families of the Department of Health and Human Services for distribution to local area foster care children.
In 2005, shortly after my ordination as an interfaith minister, I wanted to expand our mission to include a concentration on spiritual studies programs. For many years, I had facilitated a study of the Bhagavad Gita from which my book, An Ordinary Life Transformed: Lessons for Everyone from the Bhagavad Gita, emerged. I was ready to include additional programs. To reflect the expanded mission, we became the Tree of Life School for Sacred Living, LLC, in 2006. Since that time, I've created the following additional nine-month courses:
Living Our Purpose: The Heart of Spiritual Practice
Mantra Prayer Course
A Study of the Lord's Prayer and Beatitudes in Aramaic
Spiritual Mentoring Certification Program
A Study of Psalm 23
In 2009, The Tree of Life Interfaith Seminary, including paths for ordination as well as for independent study, was created as a natural outgrowth from the study and curriculum of the many spiritual studies programs. The mission of the interfaith seminary is to provide a new vision of ministry for the coming age and to offer a systematic methodology through which participants may realize, cultivate and offer their unique divine gifts in service to the greater good.
Welcome to The Tree of Life School for Sacred Living!
Rev. Stephanie Rutt, Director
Lovers in the Wilderness: Birthing the Holy
Are you ready to birth the Holy in your life? Are you prepared to know beyond what you think? Are you willing to go barefoot on a laser path toward an uncertain destination? Are you silently imagining the tender unfolding of your own inner sacred? If so, this journey into the wilderness is for you!
Ahhhh, but this is no ordinary journey. For on this journey we will engage three amazing lives as concrete examples of what is awaiting each of us in the quiet recesses of our inner knowing. From the life and words of Walter Russell, we will tap into the scientific underpinnings of the universe, exploring how consciousness works and learn how, by attuning ourselves to this knowledge, we can become master creators of Beauty. From the amazing story of Mother Mary, we will find ourselves walking, barefoot and untethered, straight into our own inner wilderness where we will discover that the barren landscape can only be nourished by the cool waters of our enduring faith. And, from the life of George Washington Carver, we will pierce the veil to find the silent and mysterious wonder of flowers - and ourselves.
And this journey will not just be one of study, understanding and sharing - however wonderful. While we will be reading the amazing wisdom found in our three short texts and sharing reflections, we will also be exploring with our full body and soul. We will engage our bodies' wisdom by moving three sacred words, containing the essence of our journey, inviting the energies emanating from the ancient Sanskrit and Hebrew scripts to inform and unfold us in wondrous ways. And, finally, we will explore our soul's depths, discovering our unity with all of life on the beat of the Shaman's drum.
Along the way, you will be invited to create a Birthing the Holy booklet containing your reading reflections, body wisdom insights, and journeying experiences. You will be encouraged to add artwork, poems, collage, any and all expressions you may wish to symbolize and record this most sacred journey. Remember, with a lover's heart, you will be going into the wilderness and will emerge not as you began. Of this, you can be sure.
Join us. And, birth your Holy.
For details, see below...
Knowledge: Tapping into the Sacred
Text: The Man Who Tapped the Secrets of the Universe by Glenn Clark
(The life wisdom of Walter Russell)
Sacred Word: moksa "liberation" arousing our awakening
The Bellboy: Creating Untethered Abundance
The Notebook & Pencil: Manifesting Beyond Reason
The Sculptor: Uncovering Hidden Treasure
Dates: Tuesday: Oct. 4, 11, 18, 25, Nov. 1, 8, 15, 29 (No Class Nov. 22)
Faith: Walking Barefoot
Text: Walking with Mary: A Biblical Journey from Nazareth to the Cross by Edward Sri
Sacred Word: mitzvah "divine commandment" eliciting our response.
The Call: How do we hear, accept, embrace the Call for our lives?
The Response: How do we say Yes to what may seem impossible?
Facing the Unexpected: How do we become alchemists transformng fear?
The Ultimate Sacrifice: How do we cultivate total surrender to God?
Dates: Tuesday: Dec. 6, 13, 20, Jan. 10, 17, 24, 31, Feb. 7 (No Class Dec. 27 or Jan. 3)
Love: Talking to Flowers
Text: The Man Who Talks with the Flowers: The Life Story of Dr. George Washington Carver by Glenn Clark
Sacred Word: ehkhad "one" igniting our love
The Flower's Secret: Seeing into the Soul of Things
Finding Sermons in Stones: Hearing God's Voice
Calling Up the Fairies: Dancing Between the Worlds
Dates: Tuesday: Feb. 14, 21, 28, Mar. 7, 14, 21, 28, Apr. 4
Fee: Each 8-week session: $160
While you will likely receive maximum benefit from the full 24-week journey, you may take one or two of the sessions as desired.
A $50 deposit is required (applied to the balance) to hold your spot as space is limited. The balance is expected at the first class unless prior arrangements for a payment plan is requested. Please make checks payable to Tree of Life School for Sacred Living, LLC and mail to:
263 Union Square, #5
Milford, NH 03055
Participants will be registered as the deposit fee is received.
Interfaith Spiritual Practice Immersion
In our community, we are fond of saying many are the ways we pray to One God. Many might, in fact, say this and completely believe it so, yet it is not until we have immersed ourselves deeply into the spiritual practices across faith traditions that we may emerge with a visceral, intrinsic knowing that this is true. Now, our heart's experience has confirmed our mind's belief and we rest in some sweet gratitude only once imagined.
Using my book, Doorway to the Sacred: Transform Your Life with Mantra Prayer as our guide, we will examine and experience together the key spiritual practices from six of the world's major faith traditions: Judaism, Hinduism, Sufism, Buddhism, Christianity and Sikhism. We will also incorporate Shamanistic earth practices to support and enhance our journeys Home.
Participants will have assigned reading and Questions for Reflection to consider in preparation for our class discussions. Class time will incorporate personal sharing to support the majority of our time devoted to the immersion in spiritual practices.
Text: Doorway to the Sacred: Transform Your Life with Mantra Prayer. You may purchase directly from me at the first class, or before. Or you can order from Amazon.
Monday Evenings 6:00 - 8:00
12 Weeks, starts September 14th and ends December 7th (no class November 23rd)
Limit 10! Kindly register ASAP with a $50 deposit (to be applied to the balance), or no later than Tuesday September 1st, 2015.
The Spiritual Mentoring Certificate Program is especially designed for those wanting to cultivate the inner presence and skills helpful in offering mentoring to those in need. This program is open to ordained clergy, seminarians in training, mental health counselors and other professionals working with the public in capacities where mentoring skills may be considered useful. If you are interested in this program but do not find yourself in one of the above categories, please discuss with me your particular situation and, together, we can assess the appropriateness of this program for you.
What is Spiritual Mentoring
Spiritual Mentoring aims to deepen and strengthen mentees' experience of and relationship to the Divine in a way that is authentic and meaningful to mentees.
Helps mentees to name, understand and work with the problems, blocks, and patterns in their life by using spiritual perspectives, practices and tools.
Guides mentees to assume total self-responsibility, not for all that happens to them, but for how they choose to be with what happens.
Assists mentees in coming to know themselves as "whole" integrating all aspects of the self - physical, mental, emotional - with the Self - spiritual.
Helps mentees toward wholeness through the cultivation of inner compassion (heart), discernment (mind), and courage (action).
What Spiritual Mentoring is NOT
Spiritual Mentoring is NOT mental health counseling or psychotherapy. An important part of this training is to help those wanting to offer spiritual mentoring to be both clear and humble in recognizing and defining just where their skills lie and what the limits of those skills are. Should Spiritual Mentors find themselves with a mentee whose emotional, psychological or psychiatric needs are beyond their own skills and scope of training, they must be ready to refer the client to more appropriate care. In such cases, the mentee may also choose to continue with spiritual mentoring focusing on spiritual needs and concerns. In this way, a mentee may enjoy the benefits of a team approach to care.
Overview of the Course
The course is offered in five parts:
Part 1: Overview of the Spiritual Mentoring Practice: Substance and Structure
Part 2: Clinical Spiritual Mentoring Skills
Part 3: Incorporating Expressive Therapy Techniques
Part 4: Special Assessments and Referral Procedures
Part 5: Visioning and Designing Your Spiritual Mentoring Practice
In addition to the wide variety of information provided, participants will be given an opportunity in each class, beginning in October, to practice mentoring skills in triads - consisting of a mentee, mentor and observer. By experiencing each of these three roles, participants will slowly and effectively develop the skills and personal confidence to step into their unique expression of being a Spiritual Mentor.
Sample Topics Covered in the Spiritual Mentoring Certificate Program
Developing the mentor/mentee relationship - key areas of difference from the traditional psychotherapist/client relationship
Deep listening - qualities of presence - skills of attunement
Establishing healthy boundaries - tools for keeping interactions clear and clean
Basic skills: navigating the content-feeling continuum, reflecting feelings, restating information, questioning, offering reflections and interpretations, how-when to address core issues
Guiding the process of distilling the deeper spiritual lessons presented through the details, events and stories
Exploring transference and counter transference - why continuing your own spiritual and healing journey is critical
The use of expressive therapy techniques: visualization, meditation, journaling, drawing, and sand tray in the mentoring process
How to design and offer a spiritual practice for mentees
Differentiating spiritual desolation from clinical depression
Working with acute trauma, grief and loss
Overview of common mental health categories: anxiety, depression, substance abuse and addictions, compulsive behaviors, post traumatic stress disorder, cycle of violence, assault and abuse
When to refer a mentee for professional psychotherapy and how to establish a team support system for the mentee - and when it is important to refer a mentee for immediate care
Ethical issues - confidentiality and conditions for breaking confidentiality
For clergy or seminarians - envisioning and designing your Spiritual Mentoring practice - ethical, professional and practical issues
For non-clergy - envisioning how Spiritual Mentoring skills and tools may be integrated into your work environment
Schedule for Classes
The Spiritual Mentoring Certificate Program begins Saturday, October 3, 2015, 9:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. at the Sparrow's Nest, 263 Union Square, Milford, NH. We will meet over ten Saturdays on the following dates:
October 3rd and 31st
November - April: 3rd Saturday of each month (Nov. 21st, Dec. 19th, Jan. 16th, Feb. 20th, March 19th, April 16th)
May 7th and 21st
You may not miss more than two dates, for any reason, to remain in the program.
Upon Completion of the Program
Participants will graduate with a "Certificate in Spiritual Mentoring." For clergy or seminarians wanting to establish a Spiritual Mentoring practice, there will be the opportunity to envision and plan how the skills acquired might create and support such a practice under the auspice of a minister.
For those working in non-ministerial capacities, there will be an extensive amount of information and tools provided to support and compliment a variety of work environments.
*It is important to note that, because the program does not offer a second year in supervised clinical training and externship, those seeking to obtain State or federal licensure for a mentoring practice should investigate more extensive programs elsewhere.
$1,200.00* - Includes the Spiritual Mentoring Program Manual (*Persons who have taken this program may repeat for half price.)
$100 deposit, applied toward balance, required with application (see below) no later than Tuesday, September 1, 2015. A maximum of 12 will be accepted.
Fee may be paid in full via check or credit card.
Optional Payment Plan: $300 at first class Oct. 3rd, $300 November 21st, $300 January 16th, balance of $200 is due February 20th
Click here for a PDF application for the Spiritual Mentoring Certificate Program.
"The most valuable part of the course for me was the Clinical Spiritual Mentoring Skills - that which is necessary to be an effective mentor and establish a relationship of trust with a mentee. - Winnie Robichaud
"It was amazing to be able to participate in the triad sessions (mentor, mentee and observer) in all three roles - especially the observer - great teaching and learning in this role. I experienced a profound internal shift - from being unsure about my abilities to feeling confident in my skills." Debra Rosenblum
"Stephanie, I loved that you brought a holistic and spiritual twist to what I have always learned as the "counseling process." As a counselor, I feel that I now have the skills to delve deeper with my clients, into places where healing can really, truly happen. To hold a person in all of who they are - their thoughts, emotions, and their connection with the divine - is a beautiful gift. Thank you!" - Christy Finn
Spiritual mentoring sessions offered by Rev. Stephanie Rutt provide a blend of western behavioral science principles and eastern mysticism. Psychological thinking and behavioral patterns are explored within the context of the spiritual journey. Clients are asked to take an active role in the process and are often offered breathing exercises, meditation practices, journaling exercising, etc., to use in further exploration between sessions. Spiritual mentoring is different from traditional mental health counseling in that the client's psychological journey is seen as the doorway through which the spiritual journey may be realized. The goal is not treatment but rather enhanced awareness. The intention is not so much to fix something as it is to offer tools through which the client may transform unwanted life patterns into more harmonious ones.
The fee for each session is based on a sliding scale. To schedule an appointment, please call or e-mail Rev. Stephanie Rutt at 603-546-2320 or firstname.lastname@example.org.
Ave Maria - We are all meant to be mothers of God... for God is always needing to be born. ~ Meister Eckhart
In this workshop we will celebrate the Mother Mary with song, sacred dance, journaling and drawing as the spirit moves. Together we will step onto holy ground as we humbly walk in the footsteps of Mary, asking her to reveal to our hearts her personal messagge for each of us today. Hand in hand, we will chant several versions of the Ave Maria as we engage in the ancient practice of monastic meditative sacred dance. We will listen deeply. Share tenderly. And, trust that the Blessed Mother, who is always with us, will open us to what the Holy Spirit is yearning to birth through each of us in service to our Lord Jesus Christ. Come and remember... we are all meant to be monthers of God.
Dates: Saturday, Novembeer 5th, 2016, 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM
Place: Our Lady of Hope-House of Prayer, 400 Temple Rd., New Ipswich, NH 03071
For further information and registration: Contact Sisters Rita Pay or Suzanne Rivard at 603-878-2346 or email@example.com